What is the secret of enduring marriages? Couples who live together for years talk about patience, resignation, understanding.
In fact, each has it's special formula. Recently we read the notes from a writer who found it very interesting.
He says that a good marriage must be created. In marriage the little things are big things.
It's never being too old to give up his hands, he says.
It's remembering to say "I love you" at least once a day.
It's never going to sleep angry.
You have values and goals.
It's to be united to face the world.
It's a circle of love that unites the whole family.
It's utter praise and be able to forgive and forget.
It provides an atmosphere where everyone can grow in mutual pursuit of good and beautiful.
It's not only marrying the right person, but to be the perfect companion.
And to be the perfect partner you have to have good humor and optimism.
Be natural and know how to act with tact.
You know how to listen carefully without interrupting every moment.
It's to show admiration and confidence, becoming interested in the problems and activities of the other. Ask what torments him, what makes you happy, because it's boring.
It's to be discreet, knowing the time to let the fellow alone so he put his thoughts in order.
It's distributing warmth and understanding, combining poetry and love, without forgetting courtship and courtesy.
It's wisdom to repeat the moments of dating. Those magical moments in the orchestra of the world seemed to play only the two.
It's being supported in front of others.
It's to be careful in speech, is to be firm and fair.
You look out beyond the trivial and get out when you have a neat presentation to another.
A new haircut, a different outfit, small but important details.
You learn to pay attention to the family of the other since, joining the couple, the two families form a unit.
It's the constant desire to cultivate resilience.
You respond with dignity and fairly for all acts.
It's being grateful for what one means in the life of another.
Real love, keeping their roots in the balance, will be signing day to day, through close contact.
Love, born of a progressive and mature experience, there tends to end, but widens as it involved get to know the virtues and vices, quirks and customs of one and other.
The balance of love promotes the practice of justice and kindness, cooperation and sense of duty, affection and warning
mature.
In fact, each has it's special formula. Recently we read the notes from a writer who found it very interesting.
He says that a good marriage must be created. In marriage the little things are big things.
It's never being too old to give up his hands, he says.
It's remembering to say "I love you" at least once a day.
It's never going to sleep angry.
You have values and goals.
It's to be united to face the world.
It's a circle of love that unites the whole family.
It's utter praise and be able to forgive and forget.
It provides an atmosphere where everyone can grow in mutual pursuit of good and beautiful.
It's not only marrying the right person, but to be the perfect companion.
And to be the perfect partner you have to have good humor and optimism.
Be natural and know how to act with tact.
You know how to listen carefully without interrupting every moment.
It's to show admiration and confidence, becoming interested in the problems and activities of the other. Ask what torments him, what makes you happy, because it's boring.
It's to be discreet, knowing the time to let the fellow alone so he put his thoughts in order.
It's distributing warmth and understanding, combining poetry and love, without forgetting courtship and courtesy.
It's wisdom to repeat the moments of dating. Those magical moments in the orchestra of the world seemed to play only the two.
It's being supported in front of others.
It's to be careful in speech, is to be firm and fair.
You look out beyond the trivial and get out when you have a neat presentation to another.
A new haircut, a different outfit, small but important details.
You learn to pay attention to the family of the other since, joining the couple, the two families form a unit.
It's the constant desire to cultivate resilience.
You respond with dignity and fairly for all acts.
It's being grateful for what one means in the life of another.
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Real love, keeping their roots in the balance, will be signing day to day, through close contact.
Love, born of a progressive and mature experience, there tends to end, but widens as it involved get to know the virtues and vices, quirks and customs of one and other.
The balance of love promotes the practice of justice and kindness, cooperation and sense of duty, affection and warning
mature.
